May 29, 2015, my son died in a single car collision on the Oregon Coast. The truth of his accident was that he was driving while impaired. But that fact does not define who my son was or the enormity of his loss to his family and friends. Kind, funny, big-hearted, strong and competent, Jeff will always be my first-born, my only son. Our family of four is now a family of three. We will always feel like a puzzle with a missing piece.